Being a woman that grew up with a lot of negativity in my life you would think I was damaged to the core but I am not....
I REFUSE TO BE AND TODAY I AM
WORKING ON MAKING MY DREAMS COME TRUE!!!
I AM MAKING MY DREAMS COME TRUE....
I CONTROL MY DESTINY....
MY TOMORROW.....
I AM MAKING MY DREAMS COME TRUE....
I CONTROL MY DESTINY....
MY TOMORROW.....
AND GUESS WHAT YOU DO TOO
REFUSE TO LET NEGATIVITY IN YOUR LIFE...
IT WILL TAKE OVER
I PROMISE IT WILL TAKE OVER AND CONTROL YOU
BUT ONLY IF YOU ALLOW IT...
Always remember the person throwing out the negativity is trying to compensate for their own insecurities and make themselves feel better while they are tearing you down and ruining everything in their path (kind of like a tornado and most of the time they don't even realize they are doing it) instead of digging deep to repair themselves. Its easier for them to ruin everything and everyone around them to make themselves momentarily feel better....until next time...then the vicious cycle begins again and again and again...until you end the cycle and start repairing yourself from the damage caused. Then they can take a good look at themselves and start to repair themselves too. Its the most wonderful breath of fresh air being strong enough to walk away knowing your tomorrow is finally going to be a better day. Its a horrible vicious cycle As well as abuse....it runs deeper than physical abuse....It ruins people from the inside out...some people it will ruin forever....you have to take charge of it otherwise it will go on the rest of your life....
You have to believe in you before anyone else can believe in you...you have to finally stand up and realize the horrible things coming from that person is not true....as hard as is it....you have too.
Its hard when you have been told many negative, horrible things over and over because you actually begin to believe it yourself. When actually that person just doesn't want you to feel better or good about yourself...because they don't feel that way about themselves. So they reach and pull anyone they can down with them. You can't blame anyone...not even the person inflicting this pain or "abuse" you can walk away at any time....talk to someone...talk to anyone...Just think once you walk away from that situation EVERYONE can begin to heal....
SO VERY SORRY FOR MY THERAPIST MOMENT...Someone I care for very much is going through this...It even hurts being on the outside looking in and seeing it happen to someone else....there is nothing I can do...they have to be ready to walk away....they have to be ready to make their life better....They have to want a better life...a HEALTHY LIFE. I am fortunate I started the repairs at a young age (I don't know where my strength came from but thank god I had it...I know that I had a very strong influence and maybe I learned from her...My best friend...My aunt Jan...she is one of the strongest most beautiful people I know inside and out...When my confidence was torn down and I was at my lowest she built me right back up...every time) and I can finally live my life free and clear from negativity and maybe just maybe I can help someone else do it too.....its the best feeling ever to know that you never have to allow it in your life....
it really is your choice
IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO NOT CONTINUE TO LIVE THAT LIFE!!!!
Lets make that today.....everyday is a BRAND NEW DAY!!!!
REFUSE TO LET NEGATIVITY IN YOUR LIFE...
IT WILL TAKE OVER
I PROMISE IT WILL TAKE OVER AND CONTROL YOU
BUT ONLY IF YOU ALLOW IT...
Always remember the person throwing out the negativity is trying to compensate for their own insecurities and make themselves feel better while they are tearing you down and ruining everything in their path (kind of like a tornado and most of the time they don't even realize they are doing it) instead of digging deep to repair themselves. Its easier for them to ruin everything and everyone around them to make themselves momentarily feel better....until next time...then the vicious cycle begins again and again and again...until you end the cycle and start repairing yourself from the damage caused. Then they can take a good look at themselves and start to repair themselves too. Its the most wonderful breath of fresh air being strong enough to walk away knowing your tomorrow is finally going to be a better day. Its a horrible vicious cycle As well as abuse....it runs deeper than physical abuse....It ruins people from the inside out...some people it will ruin forever....you have to take charge of it otherwise it will go on the rest of your life....
You have to believe in you before anyone else can believe in you...you have to finally stand up and realize the horrible things coming from that person is not true....as hard as is it....you have too.
Its hard when you have been told many negative, horrible things over and over because you actually begin to believe it yourself. When actually that person just doesn't want you to feel better or good about yourself...because they don't feel that way about themselves. So they reach and pull anyone they can down with them. You can't blame anyone...not even the person inflicting this pain or "abuse" you can walk away at any time....talk to someone...talk to anyone...Just think once you walk away from that situation EVERYONE can begin to heal....
SO VERY SORRY FOR MY THERAPIST MOMENT...Someone I care for very much is going through this...It even hurts being on the outside looking in and seeing it happen to someone else....there is nothing I can do...they have to be ready to walk away....they have to be ready to make their life better....They have to want a better life...a HEALTHY LIFE. I am fortunate I started the repairs at a young age (I don't know where my strength came from but thank god I had it...I know that I had a very strong influence and maybe I learned from her...My best friend...My aunt Jan...she is one of the strongest most beautiful people I know inside and out...When my confidence was torn down and I was at my lowest she built me right back up...every time) and I can finally live my life free and clear from negativity and maybe just maybe I can help someone else do it too.....its the best feeling ever to know that you never have to allow it in your life....
it really is your choice
IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO NOT CONTINUE TO LIVE THAT LIFE!!!!
Lets make that today.....everyday is a BRAND NEW DAY!!!!
P.S. I hope people that know me are (especially friends...I hope they would always remember me as being positive and upbeat) surprised to know that
I grew up with negativity because I have worked
very hard to overcome it and to keep it out of my life and my children's life.Even when it was being inflicted upon me everyday I teach my two beautiful boys that anything is possible and
very hard to overcome it and to keep it out of my life and my children's life.Even when it was being inflicted upon me everyday I teach my two beautiful boys that anything is possible and
I believe in them and I am there for them no matter what
THE SKY REALLY IS THE LIMIT!!!!!!
No comments:
Post a Comment